Frequently Asked Questions

Find answers to common questions about using Fetish.com, safety, and the community.

Is the platform free to join?

Yes, creating a profile, browsing members, and joining groups is 100% free. We offer premium memberships for advanced features like video chat and unlimited messaging, but the core experience is accessible to everyone.

How do I find kink matches?

You can use our "Browse Members" feature to filter by location, age, and specific interests. Additionally, our "Kink Matches" algorithm suggests partners based on the compatibility of your fetish lists and limits.

Is my data safe and private?

Absolutely. We use SSL encryption to protect your data. Your exact location is never shared; we only show approximate distances. You can also control who sees your photos (e.g., Friends Only or Public).

What are Munches?

Munches are casual, vanilla social gatherings held in public places like restaurants. They are non-sexual and non-play events designed for socializing and meeting the community safely.

I'm new to BDSM. Where should I start?

Welcome! We recommend joining the "New to the Scene" group and reading our Blog for safety tips. Start slow, communicate clearly, and never do anything that feels unsafe. A Munch is a great first step to meet real people.

How do I report a user?

If you encounter harassment, spam, or non-consensual behavior, please use the "Report" button on the user's profile immediately. Our moderation team reviews reports 24/7.